Just thoughts

I've been trying to figure out how to explain my thoughts and frustrations about how Bobby treats me. He doesn't yell anymore at me, but there's no positive words about me from him. Unfortunately I have a tender heart and don't want to hurt his feelings, but yet mine are getting hurt. I guess my problem is, I know he's going to respond with comments like, "so it's all my fault" or he'll pout. Either response is hard to handle for me. Guess I need to do some heavy duty praying to get some answers.