The weekend

 This weekend was ok. We had a small blow out with Bobby at lunch on Sat.  He made a comment about Tasha's lunch smelling good and when she didn't answer, he ranted about me apparently making the girls scared to answer him. She doesn't always answer him, so for him to explode like that is ridiculous. Unfortunately, I don't know how to talk to him about it without him being defensive.

I know couples have their disagreements. It's normal since you have 2 people from different backgrounds coming together to try and make a new family. But I just feel he finds waaay too many faults and no praising. Hopefully one day soon I can be brave and just let him know. I really don't want to go back to how things were yrs ago.